PERSEVERE

Are you unsuccessful with just about anything at this very times, and been wondering how others have just passed you by, and you're still stuck in a world so dull?
The secret to success is to "never give up". It is not your intelligence that will help you to finish college or to get a great job. No indeed. It is your ability to persevere. Having a high intellectual ability is great tool for success but things will never get done if you lack the attitude of perseverance.

President C. Collidge once said, and I quote :

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan "press on" has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.

Some of you out there maybe experiencing some troubles and are considering giving up. You could be having difficulty in finding a job, frustrated and considering giving up the search. Or you could be facing a failing relationship and thinking of letting go and give up. But how would you feel if you knew that you were one step away from success? What if your very next interview led to a good offer? And in a failing relationship, how do think would you feel if you knew that one more hug or a kiss would have made the miracle of reconciliation?
You must persevere if you want to succeed.

Many people didn't reach their goals because they kept fear of failure. Their great fear at failure hinders their way to success. And these kind of people are the most frustrated beings.

In order for you to succeed to must have AWARENESS, DESIRE, BELIEF, ACTION and PERSEVERANCE.

You must be aware of your want; nurture the desire to pursue it; hold the belief that you can achieve it; create an action to get it; and persevere to until you have it.

And so no matter what you are facing at this time, no matter how difficult it is, always remember to "press on" because your dreams and you are definitely worth it.

WANT and NEED

I was at a mall the other week and I saw a lot of nice things that made me drool.I would have liked to buy some of those pretty little things, but I didn't have the budget. And it was then that few thoughts came to mind, which I would love to share with everyone.

I'd like to believe I'm a person who knows what I want and what I need. There is a huge difference between the two, but a lot of people may not know this. This is one reason why many people struggle with finding real happiness.
Wants are desires which are not really necessary. And need on the other hand has some level of urgency.One good example is the moment I saw a cute pair of shoes. I tried to put it on and prance around a bit. I really liked it but then I realized that I've got a few pairs of my own at home, though not as cute but passable. And I also know that I can live another hundred years of my life without that cute thingy. Besides, I would have walked miles and miles to reach home if I bought that since I don't have so much of a budget.
I don't really need to have another pair of shoes but it was so cute, all I could do is promise myself to get it next time. Also,wanting a high paying job is different than your need for food. One can live without the high salary but you'll soon die if one doesn't do anything for the stomach.
Giving in to our little extras in life is not a sin, and no one can stop you from doing so. But one must learn to prioritized. Your needs must be met first before you indulge in a few nice, pretty things around.
If you can distinguish between your want and need, then you have a better chance in finding life less frustrating.

LOVE

Love is a beautiful thing especially if it’s the most fulfilling kind of love. The word LOVE is music to my ears,bringing out the OOHS and AHHS and paints a smile on my face. It involves deep emotions and greater expectations.

Love is an emotion or feeling and a state of being that we hold dearly and seek relentlessly. It is a trully awesome feeling when shared between two people, giving hope and color to life. But in a one-sided love, it could destroy one's sense of self-esteem, and may even hinder you to enjoy life.
Healthy love between two humans ought to always come back to you, a joyful give and take. It encompasses respect and being truthfull. But many others are unfortunate enough to experience disillusionment. At one time, they think themselves greatly in love, only to wake up in heartaches because their partners are abusive. This can make you mentally and emotionally lost.
I tell you, do not allow yourselves to be treated with cruelty and disrespect. Life is simply too short and too precious to spend with someone who could give you nothing but pain.
So now, take some time to think about the kind of relationship you're in right now. If yours motivates you both and inspire both of you to do good things, to become better persons each day, then hang on and never let go. Embrace life for you are fortunate indeed to find love thats pure and true and lasting...

Do you believe in Love At First Sight?

I've met a few who does, but personally, I don't. It could only be a very strong physical attraction for one thing. Besides, you must really get to know someone before you can honestly love them in a serious way, and a first glance is simply not enough time for that to occur. You may sincerely believe that you love that person (at first sight?), but real lasting love takes time to develope and nurture. At first sight, I'm sure it's too early for love to show its wonderful facet.

But if you simply insist that you can fall in love at first sight, hear this.But Please be adviced that what you are about to read can be very disturbing for some of you who are too sensitive in such matters, so excuse me. What if in a few weeks later you found out that the person you fell in love at first sight to, could really give a heavenly scented fart like that of a rotten pig, and whats more, he/she is very tactless with it, that he/she simply enjoys giving out gas anywhere. Or that he/she could treat you like a piece of $#!+ and can hit you easily, making you see the stars around you and finally landing on the carpet. And that he/she could snore louder than a hundred pig could manage...okey so I exaggerate a bit, but I'm sure you now know what I'm trying to make you see. I could go on with a lot of nasty things but then again I know you get my meaning. With all things to consider, would you want to stick to that LOVE at FIRST SIGHT baloney?

Now, for the love of mike (just an expression so excuse it), get it to your head that you can never really fall in love at first sight. Get acquainted real deep before you let him/her devour you heart, mind and soul.



With this, I'd say watch out for more of this wonderous thing called LOVE.